Why is my girlfriend going against everything we ever agreed to and wants to have a baby even though w?!!!?

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We have not been in a relationship because of insecurities and trust issues. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus The two are in college. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We talked and agreed to wait to have children. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus She makes me look like a lazy because I'm not ready for a child (financially) MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus Here's the scenario. I walked away from my college town two months ago because I graduated. My girlfriend is about to be a junior (BA) Since I moved, my girlfriend has been acting wishy washy and unstable on our relationship and said he did not know if he wanted a relationship with me. Last week she broke up with me and not talk to me for 6 days. Then out of nowhere she calls and says that her period was not activated. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus MedlinePlus We had been dating for about a year and a half earlier. Actually, never used protection and never had any problems. I knew that having a baby could be a possibility so I asked him to consider birth control sometimes. She always said ... "Even if I take it now, it takes 30 days to start working", and basically tell me to stop asking. Then I tried to put on a condom once and she gets offended. Infer that I was messing around with other girls because I wanted to use a condom. I felt like I was trying to take precautions. So finally I asked, since it was only a matter of time until something like a pregnancy occurred. If you were to get pregnant, what would you do? She said: "I wish I had an abortion because I'm not ready, I'm still in school, and my parents are paying for my housing, tuition and other expenses. Accepted because I got to the singles but I go to school as a professional Nursing, Pharmacy, or Medicine. She says she wants to be a dentist and she is two years away from his degree, and that is about to start taking pre reqs for dental school in the fall. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I feel like I'm trying to catch and this was his intention all along. She basically lied to me and when I said I thought I would get an abortion and she does not care. It goes against everything. None of us are standing on our own (without parents). The two are still in school. We like to 2 hours now. She keeps asking if I'm talking to someone else and doing everything I say be bad. She makes it seem like I did not want to have a baby because I'm not agreeing to a baby at this time with her and makes it look like I'm being a scumbagg because I do not want kids now I'm not ready and I ended up with my way, or have yet to reach the hardest part. In my opinion, I'm being responsible. I know that not everyone believes in abortion, but we all have plans for our lives and sometimes it is the right time for your life. We choose who we love to date and based on how you plan your life coincide with ours. She made me believe we were on the same page. She does not understand how hard pay for classes for 2 people, working, caring for a baby, you need a babysitter, keep up with the bills (rent, insurance, books, utilities, food, baby needs). She said she has the support of the government for that. I think it is wrong to enter a situation that clearly are not ready and already knows part of his plan is to trust the government. I feel like I was deceived because she is doing everything she said she would not talk about everything and she is thinking of going to this simple entire experience. Why are you acting like this? Are you trying to trap me? MedlinePlus I want to reach my goal and be very difficult to do. MedlinePlus MedlinePlus I do not want to take my son in a world where his mother and father are not able to provide a stable lifestyle and safe.

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